Friday, July 13, 2012

Perfectly imperfect ...

‎It's something unpredictable, but in the end it's right. I hope you had the time of your life.


Deep inside what people want a fairytale to be is perfectly imperfect. No princesses, just an ordinary silly girl obsessed with her appearance and with an undoubtedly creepy sense of humour who turns out to be a very lovely woman. No princes, just the next door guy who listen to very unusual music and eats fast food for breakfast and becomes a very responsible husband who delivered his messed-up life to a very special woman.
And when we think through this point of view, the message it is not any more '... and they lived happily ever after'. Though very desirable, it is way above our capacity of prospecting. The message behind to this imperfect fairytale would be something like this:
«... Even though she was a bit maniac, perfectionist and gained some weight over the years. Even though he is not any longer that handsome boy and lost some hair across the years. And even though they wished their love last forever. On their wedding day, they only promised to love, fight and take care of each other until the day their love slip away from their hearts. And if their love is as big as they imagine to be, that day might never come and they will be happy for forever more... »

I don't expect someone to understand my point here. I barely understand it. We are not perfect, as much as we may try, we are not perfect. Our lives are not as well, and our love is the result and combination of our perfectly imperfection desire to be together, forever.


PS. Very lame, I know. I'm in a very emotional day, just let it be! Over 11,400 views bloggers! Thank you very much! 
"Façam o Favor de Ser Felizes" - Raul Solnado 

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