In life, many times, we are confronted with times that as much as we may like to avoid them, important decisions must be taken. To do so, our first instinct is to ask the opinions of our closest friends and familiars and sometimes even strangers we just met, a colleague we talk once in a while, a long-time neighbour, basically anyone who can do it for us. And this step, is definitely a very important step in the decison making process, because it help us to broad our vision of the subject in question by analysing different approaches to it. However, we must not stop here. Jamais, as the french people would say. Don't ever let others choose the pavement you will step on. When you are the one with the last word, even if you're about to do something you should not, the fact you did it, it's your responsability, it will help you to grow up as a person in a near future, believe me. Taking your own decision means, most of the times if nothing else is influencing you such as alcohol or addictive substances, it means to have a clear conscious of the implications of your decision and accepting it as a whole. Means knowing what is essentially for YOU, for your future, for your goals, for your heart, YOU not everyone else. Not everybody will be happy with it, and including you sometimes, but it doesn't mean, it is not the right thing to do for YOU, at this precise moment. Sit back, list all pros and cons and go for it. There is no one in this world who knows what best for YOU than your wise man/woman within, your inner god/goddess. Deep inside we know what we desire for ourselves, above all fears and consequences to come, we know, we just know it. It is there, right in front of our eyes and sometimes even written, as in my case for instance. And gladly once you've taken your decision, if it was taken according to what YOU want and need, you will feel the steam letting off your shoulders and lighting up your soul. Trust your guts, your wise man within, you're going to be just fine, love. I'm sure of it. I trust in you. You will find your way. Deep down I can see you will be part of those who greater thing than these we all see today, shall do in the future. Great things are promised to you if you have the power to risk I just know it and You'll see.
FYI, The only easy decisions in life are the one we've already taken before, like having cereals for breakfast instead of bread. It's a silly example, but it is quite clear and easy to follow. Nothing will ever worth without some conflit in the middle. The fight makes the hero. Not the opposite, ever.
Love always,
Tommy
PS. 6 days to my mommy's birthday. I hate not being around to celebrate it with her. She's so out of this world amazing. However, I have a small surprise planned as always ;) I truly adore surprising people and seeing their faces lol. And the making of too. I always fall in love for the things I do and wish to have a copy for me haha. Anyways, I always put my heart in every inch of it and that's what makes of it so special for me and for the person, hopefully. 8 days to our official 3rd birthday. Official because I did not post on the first day I've created Mk. It was on the 20th I think. And prior to Mk, I had another Mk, with the same style but different goals. I wanted to be someone I will never be and the result was lack of inspiration most of the days. Anyhow it gave the experience I needed to start Mk and I'm so glad I did it. 5 years blogging and still kicking some asses haha This is only the beggining of a lifetime task - to write in order to enlight my thoughts and the minds of those who are willing to know me or going through the same. After all we're all differently the same.
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