The thing about the proximity of valentines and the anxiety rounding it, beyond the adverts spread all over the media and the constant sale of red-hearted gifts, it is the crankiness of all the single ladies. It's like other people's happiness makes you feel less of person and easily gets you very pissed. I used to be like that, an indeed cranky single lady, but somehow I understood that it was all jealousy towards their happiness speaking out for me. My happiness should not be measured by other people's sadness or vice versa. I must be my own happiness source in order not to suffer unecessarily. And if I were in a relationship at the moment, I am most certainly sure that I would appreacite some patience from other people. The less I could've seen them, the better. So that I coud snuggle , cherish and express in my way my desires towards my partner as I much as I feel like doing so. Therefore, to all single ladies out there, which includes MOI, chill out and embrace the cause. Your day will come too and I'm sure you will appreciate the consideration you're giving now. I believe everyone's meant to find his/her other half and you and I, we are not exception. I don't refer to boys, because honestly don't know how these things work with you pals. Do you experience some jealousy too? Let me know.
I do and this dryness is killing. Mama wants some candy too :p
I just thought I'd passed by to write this to you all. Not very proudly, I add that this won't be my only post about valentines. As you know, I'm one to change my mind very quickly according to the latest events in my life. And when I do it, oh boy, I'm quite stubborn about my reasons.
To all you wondering how to surprise your partner (btw, lucky you pals!) in the most expected and predictable day of the yearthe best you can do is stick to what the day is about you know. And I'm sure that will be unpredictable and lovely in enough quantity to your partner, if they love back.
To all broken hearts, it's time to move on. It will take time and some crying and desire to go back in the middlem but deep inside you know this is not your valentine.
To all broken hearts, it's time to move on. It will take time and some crying and desire to go back in the middlem but deep inside you know this is not your valentine.
These are my thoughts for this rainy Monday, WHY ENGLAND WHY?
Love always
Tommy
"You could be my unintended choice to live my life extended. You could be the one i'll always love. You could be the one who listens to my deepest inquisitions. You could be the one i'll always love. I'll be there as soon as i can. But I'm busy mending broken pieces of the life i had before."
"Façam o Favor de Ser Felizes" - Raul Solnado
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